No seriously, I have.
Just today I was walking down the street and I saw a sexy woman, and thought to myself,
"I'd like to give her one"
and I'm not talking about compliments.
Having a cock, has many advantages (let's not mention the ability to command more pay in the workplace), but the one I am most interested in - the one I wish I could experience - would be the ability to slide it inside a woman and feel her climax around it.
When it comes to women, I'm sure that I think much like a man. If I see a beautiful woman I'll find myself looking at her breasts and imagining them in my mouth; I'll look at the curve of her arse and think how gorgeous it would feel gripped by my hands; and I'll look at the dip between her legs and wonder what her pussy would feel like soaking wet.
But feeling it with fingers just doesn't compare; to be able to penetrate her with a part of my body that was my sexual nerve centre too - now that would be something.
So with my gender-bending here on Rentboy Diaries, I have, for the better part of this week, been imagining what it would feel like to be with a woman, if I had a cock.
And you know what? It feels damn good. I've been fantasising all week about doing the following:
- Stand behind a woman, lift her skirt, fondle her breasts, and slide a cock into her
- Lie side-by-side and rub her clit before slowly pushing it in to her
- Grasp her ankles and enter her with a slow and shallow pace until she is begging to be pummelled
Basically, do to another woman, all the things I like being done to me, by a bloke.
You see, it's frustrating sometimes, being female, when with another woman; the identical physiology makes it impossible to have simultaneous face-to-face penetration (without the use of toys). And regardless of what my lesbian sisters might argue, fingers - though exceedingly nice - are not a substitute for a hot, hard cock. Which is probably why I'm such a part-time bisexual: faced with a cock, or some finger/tongue action, it's the former for me, every time.
That's not to say that I would turn down some hot girl action, if presented with it, but I'd be more inclined to go for it, if I knew I was going to get a good dicking at the end of the night too.
So, my wanting a cock has probably more to do with my desires for other women, than just wanting a phallus of my own to have: the concept of a dangly thing hanging between my legs, isn't - in itself - that appealing to me. But being able to penetrate a woman - fully, and to feel her climax around your cock - that is appealing to me; and men clearly have the advantage here.
Though - knowing how many men I have shagged that were only able to fuck at rabbit-speed - it seems many take this blessing for granted, sadly.
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When it comes to women, I'm sure that I think much like a man. If I see a beautiful woman I'll find myself looking at her breasts and imagining them in my mouth; I'll look at the curve of her arse and think how gorgeous it would feel gripped by my hands; and I'll look at the dip between her legs and wonder what her pussy would feel like soaking wet.
You've pretty much summed up what I think about when I see a beautiful woman to the T.. My cock has nothing to do with anything when I see a sexy woman...
As always, a pleasure to read.
Fucking at a rabbit-pace is fun and to be honest it's what instinct is making us do. Another one for the "cruel fate of being (insert gender here)" catagory.
It's taking thousands of years to breed "have sex anytime you can, as much as you can" into men. And current society (increasing wages for women, etc) is doing it's best to bread that out. For the better, I think.
Just like men need to learn to delay their orgasim (most can probebly cum sub-1min) they need to delay the instanct to fuck-the-shit-our-of-'er.
And that is accomplished by doing a cost-benift analysis.
Cost: I don't get to cum when I want and feel like I'm in control.
Benefit: Prolonging the intercourse by 2x will increase her pleasure by 4x and increase the chances of her wanting her brains knocked out at the next convience by 6x.
Sadly, we need to reduce it down to that level.
May I add that longer penetration often leads to a better/more intense orgasm for the man as well. Among other things, lasting longer allows more pleasure drugs to flood the brain, it allows you to focus on the sensations and experience the feelings more. While fucking at a speed that could cause friction burns may lead to a short sharp orgasm that is enjoyable, having sex at a more languid pace (unless she Wants It Hard Now) is usually more fun for Both people, not just the woman.
I don't spend too much time thinking about what it would feel like to have a vagina and be penetrated (I'm not complex in that direction), I do sometimes fantasize about a hot partner strapping one on and riding me for a change.
Having a penis (or more correctly the hormone-injecting tescticles that go with it) can cause problems (abject staring for one), but on the whole, I like it. :)
I've been a fan of this blog for a long time now yet I don't think I've ever commented here.
This post totally spoke to me, as a bisexual woman I know the frustrated feelings you're writing about. I am attracted to women like a man, I think and fantasize about women as a man might, I can seduce them like a man, and I can fuck them, but I cannot fuck them like a man.
Ever since the first time I made love to a woman when I was 15 (long before I ever had sex with a man) I've had dreams of having a penis. My sex dreams are very real indeed and in these I experience my penis. When I wake from them I smile and I wonder, 'Is that how it feels, is that what it's like?'
I have discussed this dream and desire to both male and female lovers, while I was not judged by them, I have never not once heard a 'Me too!'. Thank you for this post. Also thank you Mon Mouth, for this incredible blog, sharing your incredible talents and for inviting The Girl to contribute.
As a guy, I often wonder the reverse. I always figured everyone does - "what's it like?". It's one of the more amazingly un-knowable yet immediate and personal things we have, that *difference*.
Love the rabbit comment, too. I often wonder how many guys get into bad habits from teenage jerking off in the bedroom next to the parents - quietly, and quickly. Speaking of rabbits... I've never liked the bunny ears thing, but now if I ever see rabbit ears on a guy I may die of laughter right there and then. Though I probably deserve them myself.
Interesting stuff, anyway - please keep up the very cool writing.
I wonder what a woman's orgasm feels like - if it's different to mine.
Considering the different orgasms woman can have that emanate from clitoris, g-spot, deep penetrative sex up near the "front" of the cervix, the "back" of the cervix, even anally triggered orgasms (though I think they're from one of the triggers I just mentioned, ie: missionary anal will hit the g-spot quite easily).
Add to that the occasional ejaculation, hyper sensitive nipples, suckable toes, strokable inner thighs, kissable small of backs... oh and earlobes! You lot are just blessed with blissable possibilities.
We have the one type where you grimace and flail before shooting an arcing loop of something you're just going to have to clean up or hide later, OR the other one with the cavity search (if you're lucky enough to find someone with a) no truck with a bit of muck or b) short fingernails) where you grimace and flail, et al, and try not to rip a digit off your loving partner with a spastic, spasming sphincter.
I haven't even started on the "multiple" bit.
Having said all that, I could go an orgasm now actually. Have to settle for a coffee.
Thanks for the good read as ever Girl.
I want a cock too.
Life is so unfair.
If I had one I would dress it up in cute clothes and take it for long moonlight walks on the beach.
I would talk to it all the time and hug it when it was sick or lonely.
I might get arrested for constantly patting it's head, but hey! I would have an affectionate cock what can I say?
Nobody would ever tear me and my cock apart.
I just mentioned last night that I'd like to have a cock. I'm PMSing this week, and that's another plus to having a cock.
Still, I do like being female, though.
I'd just like, say, an alottment of one week per year when I can be a man. That'd be fun.
(oh, my profile isn't working: The Cunting Linguist.
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